Last thoughts
What is the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone?
Loving someone is the things you do. Being in love with someone is the great times and bad times you share together.
Being in Love is based on dependability, compassion, respect and compromise. If you don't share those important qualities with each other then its just infatuation and not LOVE.
Being in love with someone is like, wanting to spend the rest of your life with that person, wanting to have children with them, marriage, wanting to spend every undying moment moment with them, being on your mind more times than anything else if not, they at least dominate your mind at times when your alone or listening to slow songs or when you see another person you think is attractive, you think of your partner and smile as if it were them in front of you. ( not saying to approach that person lol). Being in love is magical, you feel on top of the world, they are the highlight of your day, they make you smile when your down, someone you feel you can rely on!! so much to say but thats what i think.
NOW loving someone is different, you want the best for them, you encourage them to do good things, you dont want to see them down upset or depressed. You are their shoulder to lean on, you genuinely want them to be in you life as it wouldnt be the same without them, you will do anything for them, you try your hardest not to disappoint them!
Right now there is much more to say but that's my perception. All of the things i said for loving somebody is also included in being 'in love' but i deliberately left things out to give you a dramatic idea of the similarities and differences. I hope my perception gives you a better understanding of the difference between being in love and loving someone.
My confession for tonight: Love that we can not have ...
Is the one that lasts the longest, Hurts the deepest And feels the strongest
goodnight
LOve STelz xoxo
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