LOVE Confession...

This weekend I became relationship counsellor to my dear friends who going through the rough in their relationship. Listening to each of them made me reflect on my own recent experience. And emotions that I thought I had dealt with raised to the surface and I found myself going through flashbacks in my mind of what had gone wrong in my last relationship and why it did not work out. It's so much easier being on the outside of the relationship and looking into someelses, because things are objective. You are able to see reason and logic without emotions. (Emotions blind you, doesnt help when your born an emotional person like me ekkkk)

Im the sort of person who does not like to give up on things easily and so there I was on a sunday night reflecting on my things did not work out with this guy that I was seeing. We were both highly compatible and everything was great. I felt like my world was complete we were very insync with almost everything. But at the time I could not answer if I love him or not. You see Im a romantic. I had envision a 'love at first sight' sort of romance. The kind you get in When Harry met Sally type ones. But it did not happen with this guy. It happened with the last guy (I had the love at first sight sort of feeling but we were not compatible at all). So I think there are people you have a connection with, and there are people you really really like. But I believe your true love will be both.

When you don't know whether you really like someone alot or you love them, ask yourself why do you love this person, and if you can't find an answer, that's true love because then its neverending no matter what changes about this person you will always love them. And you know that whatever happens you'll always be there for them. That is what happens to you i think when you love that person.

A song that sums up what i feel right now is Beyonce *BROKEN HEARTED GIRL* This song totally speaks the truth, when you fall for someone and they break your heart this song decribes how you feel, It's the truth, you still love them but you don't want to but you can't help it, and we run in circles trying to get them back and were always there at the end of the day, But I know it's hard to admit but it's true, No girl EVER wants to play the broken- hearted girl. Do you agree?